My Eldest Sis Is Getting Married!

This is the birthday video I made for her during her last year 31st birthday. And this year, 30/8 she is getting married with her ex-colleague! 

Shockingly, I didn't have an idea what is going on. We siblings have our whatsapp group, and I only get the news  that her bf was meeting our parents and my siblings to celebrate Father day together with my father's birthday last week. And all of a sudden yesterday she uploaded a image of rings and chatted excitedly about it with my brother. 

I felt upset. My eldest sis is leaving me this soon? She didn't even tell me this herself. I text her and confronted her. She didn't bother me and kept discussing her rings. I couldn't help but bursted into tears. I was just too shocked and lost. Suddenly I felt the weakness of mine, my limbs became feeble and numb. 

She called me later. I sounded like her mother instead. LOL. I couldn't help but demanded her to tell me everything. Obediently she told me who the guys is (see, I didn't even know that how could I not to worry?), how he adore her and take good care of her. I wanted to hear from her so desperately. Glad to hear that she will moved to Sg. Long, not very far from our current house after married, to her husband's house.

Eventually I made sure she is good, a bit unprepared but conscious and sober (LOL), I wished her all the best, enjoy her moments and be a beautiful bride-to-be. I understood life comes this way, always full of surprises. I just wanted her know she always have us by her side no matter what happened. 

Soon I was at ease, abundant ideas of wedding gift started to emerge in my mind. Also, checked flight ticket for her wedding so that I can reunion with my family (LOL). Hmm, there are lots to handle with my attendance and my wedding songs performance etc. Cheers Yibi! Your sis finally found her soul mate, and there is nothing to be worry about. Uncertainty and fear of yours are well understood and accepted. If you can feel these, imagine how much your sis is bearing right now. Just happy for her and support her in every way. :) After all, I'm not going to lose her and we're still sis forever, nothing will ever change that.